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• Days 1–30 (Shock and Logistics): Focuses on immediate survival, numbness, and basic self-care during funeral planning and the initial aftermath. | |||
• Days 31–60 (Reality and Isolation): Explores the fading of social support, the onset of intense guilt and anger, and the loneliness of adjusting to daily life without the loved one. | |||
• Days 61–90 (Rebuilding and Integration): Guides survivors in slowly accepting their new reality, honoring their loved one’s memory, and carrying grief while moving forward . | |||
Each chapter addresses specific emotions and experiences, including: | |||
• Shock and trauma responses (“The Shock That Breaks Everything”) | |||
• Guilt and survivor’s blame (“The Guilt That Eats You Alive”) | |||
• Anger and stigma (“The Anger Nobody Talks About”) | |||
• Hurtful remarks from others | |||
• Loneliness and isolation | |||
• Recognizing symbolic ‘winks’ from the deceased | |||
• Daily coping routines and survival strategies | |||
• Honoring memory without erasing pain |